Tuesday, January 10, 2017

To Trust or Not To Trust In a Survival Situation

Episode 78: Season 2 ep.43

In the Without Land story, Erika delights in the opportunity to gain their freedom but she has to say goodbye to friends and loved ones she has built a strong bond with. Trust is not an easy thing to earn and is a big risk, every time you trust someone. Here to talk to us today about the pros and cons of trusting people are Lisa and Dale Goodwin hosts of The Survivalist Prepper Podcast.

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"This is how she wanted to remember her friends. Everyone together, laughing and carrying on whimsically, but the night was finally over."

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Who to Trust with Dale and Lisa

It's so hard to know who to trust. The first thing you should do is ask probing questions to figure them out but fronts can be hard to breakdown. You think it's all good but might it might not be. Start to assess if the individual is genuine. Do they listen to hear you or listen to respond? Pay attention to how they interact with other people. Are they the type of person who always has to have a story that trumps the last one? If you meet someone who likes to talk, let them talk. They will give away a lot of information. Be quiet when you first meet someone. Don't give away your secrets. Ask three why's about the what the person is revealing to you. In the end, you have to trust your gut.

There are a lot of pros to trusting others. Communities make things happen, together. You will have access to more individuals with more skills or hands for labor. There are also a lot of cons to trusting others. Do you really know who they are? Maybe they are just putting up a front to take advantage of you. Morals will be tested and someone you trusted before may turn into an entirely different person. If they are aware of your secrets, it may be a big risk.

You should have levels of trust. Think like the layers of an onion. Make a new individuals traverse through the layers before you give away your information. Once they reach the core you have to still be cautious. Relationships can change and falling our with someone who has reached the core can be a big risk. Addictions, high stress, and impossible circumstances will test your loyalties and that of your trusted companions.

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Dale and Lisa Goodwin

"In early 2013 Lisa and I decided to create SurvivalistPrepper.net and become a bigger part of the preparedness community, we are not the overboard tinfoil hat wearing conspiracy theorists, we are just like you, everyday Americans that enjoy the freedoms that this country offers.
Lisa is more of the prepper and I am more of the survivalist or outdoor type and we write articles ranging from first aid, to food storage to primitive and wilderness skills…basically anything that involves preparedness and survival." - Dale Goodwin

 Sara F. Hathaway
Sara F. Hathaway is the author of the The Changing Earth Series: Day After Disaster and Without Land. She also hosts The Changing Earth Podcast which blends her fictional stories with educational survival tips. Sara grew up in the country where she developed a profound interest in the natural world around her. After graduating with honors from The California State University of Sacramento with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration, she launched into a career in business management. In her fictional novels her research and experience with survival techniques and forgotten life-sustaining methods of the generations past come to the forefront in a action packed adventures. She has used her background in business management to pave new roads for fictional authors to follow and she delights in helping other achieve the same success. She currently lives with her husband and two sons in California where she is at work on the sequel to her first two novels. For more information and a free copy of “The Go-Bag Essentials” featuring everything you need to have to leave your home in a disaster visit: www.authorsarafhathaway.com
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